Welp - this quote hit me: So I became an indoor cat, developed a version of myself that maximized convenience to those around me and took care of any of my own needs privately--if at all.
I also have a habit of seeing my privilege and wanting others to have access to resources first (because I’m fine, right? I don’t reeeeaaallly need them, right?) - and I just add layers between me and the resources because I am a great creator of secret rules. So thank you Ben for the reminder that I need and deserve support. I needed to hear that today.
Thank you for this message. I am grateful for you and your updates.
Thank you! I needed to read this!
Welp - this quote hit me: So I became an indoor cat, developed a version of myself that maximized convenience to those around me and took care of any of my own needs privately--if at all.
I also have a habit of seeing my privilege and wanting others to have access to resources first (because I’m fine, right? I don’t reeeeaaallly need them, right?) - and I just add layers between me and the resources because I am a great creator of secret rules. So thank you Ben for the reminder that I need and deserve support. I needed to hear that today.
I definitely needed to read that XD.